Confidence is the first of the three traits that you need to develop in order to become more attractive to women and increase the likelihood of a woman staying with you for longer. All women love a man that has confidence - it makes them feel they can be sure that you can take care of things and that they are in the company of a real man not a wimp. You will need to develop both your self-confidence and your self-esteem. Of course you have to develop your confidence slowly over time and it is well worth doing as it will not only help you with women and dating but also in business and other life situations.

Control is the second trait that you need to attract a womens interest. What kind of control are we talking about here? Well your own self control, your patience levels and your self discipline. Again all these things are very useful life skills that will improve the overall quality of your life, not just dating and relationships.

Challenge is the third major trait that will help you attract and keep Miss Right. What do we mean by challenge? Well it means you trying not to chase her, let her come to you, saying no to her once in a while and not being a pushover. If you dont say no to her now and again then she will find it hard to respect you. Another good reason to develop challenge as part of your personal repertoire is that if you are a challenge, she has to chase you and this allows you to see her interest level in you. If shes not that interested then she wont respond to your challenge and wont bother to chase you, in which case you are wasting your time with her and would be better off finding someone else. Also if shes chasing you, she cant be leaving you