So are you a sex toy virgin? You've got your toy, you're excited, you're aroused BUT, you're wondering what to do with it'. Well, we think we can help guide you so that its not like your real first time; after all you never forget your first (oh the good times!!)

There are several cardinal rules to this game.

1. Never insert any vibrator to the point that it cannot be easily controlled and removed.
2. Always clean your vibrator after use.
3. To make clean-up easier, you could place a condom over your vibrators before use.
4. Use only compatible water-based lubricants with condoms and latex toys.
5. If pain or discomfort occurs while using your vibrator, stop immediately.
6. Do not use your vibrator on broken or irritated skin.

When you get your hands on your new toy take it out of the box carefully. Check over the box or any instructions to see if your vibrator has any safety tips or special instructions. After this, you need to gently wash your vibrator with warm water and mild soaptaking care not to get the battery compartment or controls wet. Dry your vibrator off with a clean towel and you're getting closer.

The eternal question:

To lube or not to lube; that is the question' In case you're not sure; lube is a lot like air conditioning; not a necessity but, it sure as hell is nice to have on a dry day. Lube serves as a fill in for the regular lubrication/moisture produced by a woman's vagina. There are several different varieties of lubes geared for special purposes, including vibrator use.

If you're planning any anal play then lube IS a necessity. Only lube will provide a smooth, safe penetration for your vibrator while allowing for easy removal. It's also a good idea to use lube with any vibrator that provides clitoral stimulation. Several lubes have unique properties like heating up when friction is applied to them that can enhance stimulation and take your vibrator thrills even further. Some women can use their vibrator safely and comfortably for vaginal penetration without using lube. Most women, however, have a difficulty time being aroused by a simple piece of plastic, and they rely on lube to help get things started. Since this is your first time with a vibrator, it's better to play it safe and cautious by using lube your first few times and then making a decision.

Take it for a ride:

Whatever sex toy tickles your fancy; its time to take it for a ride'. The key here is if it feels good do it!!! Make sure to never force anything anywhere it doesn't fit; other than that just explore your own body and find what works for you.

First, get in a position you find comfortable, such as on your back or on your stomach. Turn the vibrator on low and start using to gently touch your erogenous zones such as your nipples, inner thighs and around your vagina. After getting used to the feel of the vibrator, apply a little lube to the vibrator and your vagina and clitoris and begin to gently rub the vibrator up and down your vagina. Start with a light, almost teasing approach and gradually build up pressure until you reach the point you're most comfortable at. Remember to relax and ENJOY!

Cleanup:

The same way you clean up your utensils after creating your culinary masterpiece in the kitchen you must clean your toolkit after creating an orgasmic masterpiece with your body. Most vibrators can be cleaned with a simple soap and water, but some models and material require special care.